Have Relationship Questions? Ask a Counselor for Answers ASAP
I don't think he is gay I think he wants to make sure that this is the right thing for him, as a minister he cannot outwardly show affection toward you until he has made a conscience decision to take the relationship to another level. I think it's best to go at his pace and give him at least a week or two to process what you told him and then ask him how he feels about you and if he sees a future with you. It's better to know now then to continue to assume how things are, this could be what is affecting your health the not knowing and wondering and worry about where things lie between you. The question is, "Are you ready to hear what he might say about the relationship no matter whether it's positive or negative?"