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Lost and alone,
It is only okay if he is no longer with his wife but if they worked the marriage out or are trying to get the marriage back on track then it definitely is not okay to have any type of contact with the mistress because it will only cause more trust issues than he already had with his wife and if he truly wants his marriage to work then he has to let go of anything that put the marriage in jeopardy in the first place. New beginnings means being willing to let of the old ways in order to start that new beginning and self control has alot to do with the progress of that marriage.