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With the kind of behavior you exhibited while dating it's going to take alot for your ex to even consider taking you back, once the trust is gone in the relationship there isn't much else that can save that relationship. What you are going to have to do is sit down either by yourself or with a counselor and figure out why you need so much attention from other women, is it something from your past that you didn't get much attention as a child or in past relationships that you now crave attention from others because this is the reason your relationship didn't work out and will continue to be the end to your relationship in the future. Now to get your girl back or at least prove to her that you have change, she will actually have to see that you have changed and for the better, once you are able to figure out why you do this you will have half the battle won. If you decide to seek counseling this could be some type of proof to her that you really want to change and become a better mate she will not even consider taking you back if she thinks it's going to be the same thing she had to go through before that is why it's important for you to figure out the why and then figure out how to be in a relationship without needing attention from any other woman let alone prostitutes. Even though you never met these women and were only in it for the chase what you have to realize is that it still hurt your girlfriend and ultimately was the demise of your relationship in the end. The only way now of winning her back it proving to her that part of your life is over and you are willing to satisfied with just her in your life and not all of that added attention.
Yes but there is a different level of trust there as friends she doesn't have as much to lose as her being your girlfriend and her heart and soul is at stake in a relationship than it is in a friendship. Maybe being friends withe her will give you time to prove to her that you have or are willing to change.
There is a different type of trust with being friends she won't have to worry about you cheating on her and then her feelings being hurt because of being friends she won't have the same level of emotions invested in being your friends as she did with being your girlfriend. She doesn't feel she can have you as a boyfriend because you have proven to her over and over again that just having her in your life is not enough for you that you need attention from other people. This way having you in her life as a friends means she can still have you as part of her life without having to worry about you being faithful to her because you are only friends. She may figure having you in her life at all is much better than not having you in her life together.
I'm sorry typo what I meant to say was, " She may figure that having you in her life at all is better than not having you in her life altogether" which means something is better than nothing and this way being your friend she doesn't have to invest to much of her heart and emotions.