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If you called him last Saturday and he hasn't called back then he may not be calling you back what you should do is sit down and write him a long letter telling him how you feel about him and that you never stopped loving him, he may not be calling you back because he doesn't know what you want or that you want him to call back. Depending on how things ended this may be your only chance to get him back so don't let this pass you by and then years later find yourself living with regrets. Either way you need to know where you stand with him and if he isn't willing to give it another try then you will know that you gave it your all. Make the letter as long as you need it to be and make sure you get all of your feelings out there and ask him if he would every consider giving you another chance. This way if he isn't willing to give it another try you can find closure in knowing that you told him how you felt and don't have to hide the way you feel anymore. What I would do is try to call him one more time and give it three days and if he doesn't call you after that then I would write the letter and mail it out to him.
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I think that Chuck doesn't know what you want when you call unless you leave a message stating why you are calling he will not know that you still love and care about him and want to have another chance with him. Alot of people think "Oh, they aren't going to take me back" or "This will not work" without even trying and then they often times live with regrets for many years and asking themselves "What if" and you don't want to find yourself asking that without knowing one way or the other. Even if he isn't interested in trying again at lease you know for sure and then you can work on moving past this and finding closure to help you move on.
Without talking to Chuck it's hard to know what he thought about the phone call but since he didn't answer your call he may have move on or just thought you were calling to tell him and since you didn't tell him to call you back he probably won't that is why it's important for you to be open about your feeling.
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