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well she told me to wirteXXXXXi love her and way

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well she told me to wirteXXXXXi love her and way should she take me back
Submitted: 8 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Cher replied 8 years ago.

What are your ages?

Is this your wife, girlfriend?

Why did you break up?


Customer: replied 8 years ago.
am 23 and she 30 and we have 2 lil girls and one on tha way i did a phone chat and this is not the first time it three time that i did it but am really sorry and i love her so she told me to wirte 30 things about why she shoud take me back and why do i love her
Expert:  Cher replied 8 years ago.
Hello again, and thanks for your reply with additional information about your situation.

I'm glad that you are showing her you're sorry for having a phone chat more than once; even though you did not meet (?) with another woman in person, this IS like a form of cheating and you made her feel badly and like you don't love her anymore.

I agree that you should think carefully about why you love her and why she should take you back. No one can write this list, but you, but you should write as many things as you can and tell her that 30 is a lot, if you can't think of that many. Here is a start for you:

with you, I feel I am a better man.
you are beautiful.
you are understanding.
you are a fantastic lover.
you are a kind person.
you are a loving person.
you are a forgiving person.
you are a great mom.
we are great together.
you know how to have fun.
you know how to make me feel good about myself.
I can't live without you.
I love loving you.
our children need us to be together.
I will never, ever do this again. If I do, you can throw me out (you'd better mean this one!)

I wish you much good luck and hope things work out well for you and your family!

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