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There is a man who works in my building. We ride the elevatr

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There is a man who works in my building. We ride the elevatr together almost everyday on our way to our offices. He is cute and always smiles at me. I smile back. I want to ask him out on a date and I am a modern woman. Should I ask him out?
Submitted: 8 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Cher replied 8 years ago.
Hi again, Ms. Match.

There would be nothing wrong with asking him to go for coffee (be casual) or a drink after work, if you have been seeing him almost every day, on your elevator rides. It might be best to engage him in a little conversation, first, if you haven't spoken to him yet, and also notice if he's wearing a wedding band or not. Of course this isn't the only indication he might be married; not all men wear their rings, but if you start having some small talk with him, you can hint around to see if he's involved with anyone, etc., before asking him out.

I wish you much good luck, and hope he accepts your invitation.

Please let me know how it goes!