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The girlfriend's mother is going to have to understand that her daughter is going to one day have a family of her own and she cannot be the center of her attention especially if she wants her upcoming marriage to your son to work but the girlfriend is going to have to learn to put her foot down where her mother is concerned because if she isn't careful she could end up trying to control her marriage to your son and that is never a good thing. She is going to have to learn to tell her mother no sometimes if she is ever going to have peace in her life and relationship with your son. You're right God answered your pray but try not to be cozy about the way things turned out. You can bet glad but not smug that will just add salt to the wound and for your sons sake you want to try to get along with his soon to be in-laws. There may be some bad blood if he takes the internship so they should try to smooth things over with her mother as much as possible so that her mother doesn't feel like she is losing her daughter but feels as though she is gaining a son in law. There is going to have to be alot of compromise on both sides so that the couple doesn't feel torn between the two sets of parents.
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