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This is an extremely common problem with couples.
Most women find that occupying their alone with friends, family or hobbies make a HUGE difference.
Do you have friends and family where you live? You can spend time with them. If not, make friends.
Do you have things you like to do? Cooking? School? Sewing/Knitting/Scrapbooking? Reading? If you don't know what you like -- find a hobby! Do something you have always wanted to do.
If he's working, you can't really be angry with him... it's how he makes his living; so do your own thing while he is working and then when you two are together, make it fun and be happy -- who would want to be with someone who is always sad or upset?
Well i dont understand what tipe of relation ship can kipe goin when they dont have time , some time i think there is no love in this world any more and i think that if i get the alone time with friends in general what is the hole point to be in a ralation ship ,maybe i am wrong and if i am please tell me what can i do better?
All relationships go through periods where the two of you don't have enough time together. If you really care about this person, you can try to be patient until it passes. Nobody keeps the same job forever anymore -- he may get promoted, he may get a new job -- you never know.
You can't base a relationship on "right now" you have to base it on what you feel for the other person -- and love means holding their happiness in your heart as well.
I dont know maybe i see this relation ship out of place because of locke of time but like you say go out with my friends or meet new friends i dont know if that can happen right now i am a mother of 3kids and 1on the way i dont go out i dont have time not neven for my self i guess life and love is not importante like it was before now is money first and earning money is good but i know i lot of people that try holding happiness when every thing suposse to be happy at the end there not i guess playing pretending happiness is the better way of living life sorry if i sound cold but life has been making me fill this way every were i go and talk there has been so many people sad depress because they dont spend time with there love one or even been harte brake up because there love one sleep with another person or there work to much and there house is not the same any more i am so confuse what you think about that there has to be a better way to fill better and bill up a srtonger relation ship !!!
I agree! So... when you DO have time together, make it special -- make a nice candlelight meal, watch a romantic movie, do something *he* likes.
Make the little time you do have together special.
Well, I am glad we cleared that up! It sounds like you have a plan now!
Good for you :-)