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She may be feeling lonely since her fiance' is out of town and not feeling like she means all that much to her fiance'. She does seem confused as to what she wants and if that is the case she is going to have to rethink marrying this guy until she is totally sure she will be marry him without unresolved feelings for you. What you are going to have to do is make sure she isn't using you as someone to keep her company and show her affection while her fiance's is away. She may very well like you or may be starting to fall for you but that could change as soon as her fiance's is able to be there for her more so just be careful not to put all of your emotions out there until you ask her what this all means. Ask her if you are her shoulder while her boyfriend is away or are her feelings genuine and if they are then what does it mean for her future. She may be having second thought about getting married or who she is marrying if her fiance's puts more time into his business than her but you are going to have to find that out before giving your heart to her. She should never enter into a marriage with unresolved feeling for someone else, the marriage won't last long if she has feelings for you and doesn't work through those feelings and she may want to be honest with her fiance' about her feelings, honesty is always the best policy. Talk to her about what all of this means and what she plans on doing about the feelings she has for you.