thanks for your response. the first month of the relationshiop she asked me how long i had been broken up with my previous and i said 6mos, she said she had spoke to hers in over a year. then one night she doesn't think and forwards me a joke email that was sent to her by the ex. i eventually told her that if she hadn't been in contact with this guy in over a year, he wouldn't be sending joke emails out of the blue and she got defensive.
then when things weren't going great i just kind of shut her out because all we did was argue. she didn't say anything at first but one morning she wanted to meet for breakfast to talk about our relationship. this wasn't her style. we ended up spending the whole day
and had a good time, she asked to extend it to night but i had night school. i knew this day wasn't right so when i got home i called her and told her to come to the apt which she had been trying to get over there. she told me she was at home (her parents house)
but i was out front while i was talking to her on the phone. she came over dressed up from somewhere else. we've always lived at separate residents approx one mile apart.
just a side note, she's african and her parents would rather her date within her culture
but she's been over here since she was 16(now 25). that was an issue too because she wished i was african and of her faith. she's a smart girl, for some dumb reason i
still like her and wouldn't mind trying again if she were on the up and up. i date all the time and with someone more serious briefly. in answer to why do i think she mentioned
the other man and do i think she still has feelings for me, i know your not a mind reader
but i was hoping you could kind of help understand this. when she was talking to me about this she was giggly and tried to give that i'm running things gesture over the phone. she said i was too strong willed and when she went back to africa 12/07 said she was going to get some strength from her grandmother in the form of voodoo to tame me. we both laughed at that. whenever she has talked about a man that she's dated, she talks about how she's in control and gives examples of how she tells them
what to do and they listen and she adds unlike you.