replied 8 years ago.
He is very attractive isnt he. And i really like him after everything that as happened.
Basically, i met him a week after meetin him online, i went to his house in London and we got together. The next day we was sittin in his dinning area and we was talking an he said we had rusheed it, at 1st i was hesitant to change the subject but i later agreed with him.
That night we went out and i was really upset so we ended up arguing and stuff, then we went to heaven (a gay club in london) and i was gettin attention off ppl and i didnt realise i was until my mate said the next day, but that night we was in heaven and we was there 4 about 2 hours and Tom wanted to go home because he was tired so we left, we got back to his and he had to clean the house so i offered to wash up.
While i was doing it he came and put his arms around me and started kissin me, notin in mind that he said we had rushed it and we split up the day before.
Anyway we had sex that night, and the next day i was really upset, to the point were i called my mate back home and i was crying my eyes up to him on the phone.
We finally got home back to walsall and Tom had come back with us, because he thought we was going out clubbing to the lion, but when we got back it was 1:45 am i really couldnt be arsed so we ended up arguing and fighting in my kitchen.
He said all this stuff to me and i said some stuff to him and he said he was never speakin to me again and i hadnt got a chance to ever get back with him.
This all happened in October of last yr, we started speaking again in December, i brought him a present and posted it to him and that got us talkin ageain. Know he still said we wasnt getting bk together, so we became really close as mates.
And he used to ring me aaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time, text me, email me everything. Then one day he rang me when he was wiv his 2 best mates and they kept saying to me "Why arnt you with tom u shud get wiv tom." Know normally if anyone mentions me and him and anythin like that he jumps up straight away and says nah we mates and nothin more but he never said anything, so i sed to them " im his ex" and they were like "oooooh ok ye well get back with him we want you to" amd still he didnt say thing.
So that night he rang me again and he said hello baby ect ect, im just in the cinema, and we was chattin, and he said i gotta go know cuz lucy and chris are coming back, so i was like ok then babe ill speak to u afta.
Then it clicked who chris was, it was a lad Tom had told me he was seein who cheated on him and i told him to ring me back, so he did and i was being off with him and he knew i was.
So then i told him not to ring me and i turned my phone off, and the next day we had another arguement, things were said from the both of us, he said i havnt changed from when he came here, and then he said " and to think i was thinkning aboiut getting back wiv u" which really f**ked my head up because he as always said we wasnt getting back together ever. So i said dnt you dare use that agianst me.
And he said he wasnt he was telling the truth.
So then we made up and on the thursday i heard from him once, friday/saturday and sunday didnt hear anything. The he came online and i asked him why he adnt been intouch and he didnt answer me so he went off line and i text him the same question and he text back becuase i dnt wanna start getting feelings for you again,
SO then i was crying, and he wouldnt listen to me, i sent him a massive email explaining my feelings 4 him and what he meant to me, and he txt me and sed "i havnt read it iv just deleted it" so i sent it 3 more times and he said the same thing.
So then i started chatting to his mates lucy and kat who was the girls in the car wiv him when they were askin me to get back with him. And they told me i could do so much better, and i was thinkin, 2hold on ur his best mates u shudnt b saying that surely =s" and they told me all this stuff about him i didnt think he was like.
They said he was a compulsive liar, a thief. Anything he said was a lie, but every1 listens to him because its entertaining.
He tried stealing Kats phone when they all went out and hid it behind his sofa when they got back to his, they only found it because he hadnt switched it off and it rang. The one of his lad mates named Alex who know is good mates with me, said hes the biggest slag in Soho, majority of the heaven club know of Tom, he sleeps wiv the oweners of G-A-Y and Heaven, he sleeps with anyone who is offering it.
And all this became a shock to me. Know me, lucy and kat had to keep it from tom that we was tlking cuz he wouldnt like it, and i never understood why i wasnt aloud to talk to em, but i found out why. Becasue of what id find out about him.
The other night he was at lucys and he saw what i was saying to her becuase he told Kat some stuff about me that wasnt true, so i told lucy to see if she had heard it but he saw it and phoned me threatenin me down the phone, gonna smash my head in and all this shit. And since tthen i havnt heard off him again. This was laast week this happened.
Hes made lucy and kat delete me on Facebook and MSN, so yea its been really shit and i know have lost the lad i wanted to get back together with when i moved back to London this year.
The plan was he was gonna come live with me and we would go halfs on everything with each other. But know he wants me dead and to NEVER talk to any of his mats again.
So you see chase imm in a bit of a pickle here lol
Hope u can read it haha im noddin off here.