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what does it take for a man to know how good a women is and

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what does it take for a man to know how good a women is ? and what qualities she got.
Submitted: 8 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Cher replied 8 years ago.
Hello,Customer and thanks for your question.

Usually, an astute and attentive man will recognize a woman's great qualities relatively early on in the relationship. If you feel this has not happened with a man you're currently involved with, you'll have to help him along. Be witty, show him you're a great conversationalist, and take an interest in some things HE's interested in. If you know he likes certain sports, types of music, etc., and you don't know much about it, educate yourself about these subjects online, so you can discuss them with him, and he will be impressed! You don't have to make like you knew this information all along, let him know you did some research, because you were interested in knowing why he liked these things so much.

Be 'real' with him. No man appreciates a phony. Put out there, who YOU are, and he'll appreciate you for that.

If he's not reacting the way you expected, or you feel it has taken way too long for him to notice your great qualities, perhaps he's not who you thought he was, and you should start looking around for someone to appreciate you and your good qualities, in a more complementary way.

If you'd like to discuss this further, I would love to hear your thoughts.


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