Hello sir : i am a first time user and if i was to reconstruct the question better i do feel that it would be of more help..Not knowing , i was trying to be broad so i would be promped to a page liks this one .I hope it not to late to ask ?
my name is XXXXX XXXXX my loving husband Mike we are great together , ower sex life is still good , ( no children ) and 43 and 46 years old
we have talked about request ,and what is in his creative mind , ( i am more concret,traditional )
we have played with the fantancy roll a bit , and i do know what he wants , To be treated like a sex slave waiting on me hand and foot cleaning the house and pampering me and in return i am to "punnish" him , such as for him to give me oral sex ,tie him to the bed and ask him humuliting questions , add to the honey do list of domestic chores , and to give him a spanking .. " I want to treat you like a Queen because you are " O yes i should add that he likes to were girly undergarments , which i am inbarrased to tell you but that goes not bother me ,it's cute/and a bit funny .. 6ft1in 205 lb .o well. All the " punnishments " are things he likes any way ?
Q1 - i want to enjoy this with him and understand it better in order to for this guilt i get seeing him do all the extras . its like its all for me ????
Q2- can us playing like this destroy ower relationship that WE have , ?????
Q3- I dont want this to become the only way we have sex , ( he has said that he does not want it all the time too ) but it seams to me that he is so much more excited when we do ????
Please , think it through and give me your expert advice THANK YOU