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If he hasn't stopped seeing this woman and doesn't know what he wants that isn't you fault and you should have to pay for his indiscretions and that is exactly what is happening he is still having his fun and you are sitting at home stressed about what to do about your marriage. It is him that is not honoring your vows and marriage you shouldn't have any guilt over this but it's usually the one being cheated on that feels the most guilty when it should be the guilty party feeling the affects of the affair. I would go ahead with divorce proceedings and move on with your life until he shows you that he is willing to do whatever it takes to fix his marriage he is just going to continue to lead you on and then start an argument just so that he can go see the other woman. You deserve better than he is giving you and has given you since seeing this woman, show him that you are not going to be play for a fool and wait around for him to be done with the other woman.