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I think you are just being insecurity about the relationship and maybe reading too much into. Whether you had bad relationships in the past or maybe you haven't had someone in your life like your boyfriend so you don't know how to get use to this type of relationship. You are going to have to learn to trust that he loves you and is being loyal to you or this could be the demise of your relationship if you continue this way, he will only be able to take so much. The easiest solution is to try to let go and understand that you simply can't control another person. You can love him and he can love you, but you simply cannot control him and make him act the way you want him to. This is an issue that has ended many relationships. One of the biggest underlying problems troubling relationships today is that people feel like they "own" their partner. This is the real reason behind fear, anger, jealousy, insecurity, and similar types of feelings. The best thing to do is to just allow him to be themselves and love him for who he are and not who you want him to be.