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It's hard to pinpoint what went wrong in your sex life but that is something you have to discuss with your boyfriend to see why he no longer wants to have sex with you it could be that the sex has gotten too routine for him to be aroused. It's very important for you to communicate with your boyfriend and find out why and what happened to your sex life. It may even be that sex isn't all that important to him anymore since he has the girl what you have to do is explain to him that sex in your relationship is important to you and you miss the intimacy. It's important to find out the why the sex has stopped in order to figure out the what to do.
Try experimenting or your sex life will get boring if you are not willing to experiment much with it, you can always try something new from time to time to keep them interested, you could also try buying sex books that tell you how to turn your man on and also sex toys, this is one of the best ways to improve your sex life and bring the magic back in it. Adult books may have some of the ways to perform in bed and keep the magic alive. Also try role playing with your boyfriend, foreplay is basically dressing up and fulfilling your boyfriend's fantasies, most people have secret fantasies and so it's a good idea to try to find out what his fantasy is, discuss it with your boyfriend before hand and there is nothing wrong with playing your boyfriends fantasies out as long as it includes just the two of you if that helps add that extra spice in bed which would eventually lead to an improved sex life for you.
Buy new lingerie for him and see if that makes things heat up, a man is not turned on if his woman comes to bed in cover up PJ's, try initiating the sex or foreplay that turns a man on if a woman initiates things and is spontaneous in bed. There could also be a physical problem with him that he may be too embarrassed to talk to you about and also too embarrassed to go to a Doctor about, this is also something you have to figure out through communication with your boyfriend. If you still need help or have anything to add click reply it is free.