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Experience:  I have a master's degree in clinical psychology and am currently finishing my doctoral degree.
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my husband and I married july 4th 2007, and he as been fridgid

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my husband and I married july 4th 2007, and he as been fridgid since november 07... im not sure what to think about it as Its uslally the woman who is... He refuses marrige counsiling and states that once a month is fine, but when we do, its obvious he is forcing himself and it last for about 5 minutes, even affection from him feels forced... we have a good marriage on other things, but I am a sexually driven person who is Extremly attracted . He doesnt understand why I keep bothering him, I have asked him why does he feel this way, but he only comes up with the guilt trip, makeing me seem like a whore, and calling me childish.... Im fustrated, I asked him what I could possibly do to make myself more attractive, and he states that I am very attractive and that im exactly what he wants.... but as you see, there is a problem..... im fustrated....
Submitted: 8 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  JR, M.A. replied 8 years ago.

I am a psychologist and would be happy to help you. Has anything changed in your husband's life recently? Any problems at work? How was your sex life up until November 07? Were there any problems?