I am 50 and he is 45. We have been together on & off for 2 years. He asked for all types of different things. Montblanc Pen, Le Chat Noir poster, graphic design light table, Omega watch, book, 27 pairs of boxer briefs, 27 pieces of papyrus, my only diamond ring , rose flugelhorn. The only thing he didnt get was my ring. We met online at an interracial site. He said he was researching for a client. He was on for one month then got off. He said he tried to resist, but fell in love with me.We wrote for about a month before meeting.The poems and letters were incredible almost shakespearean. We both wrote like that. Then it took another 2 months before we slept together.
He wants to that I am serious and will be there while & when he divorces. He said the divorce will be difficult and will need me to support and be trong for him.He is giving up that much money to be with me, he wants me to give up (invest) something too. I tried to understand this, but can't. He lives in Ohio and I am in Michigan.This is his last email to me today:
"Do you even know what I want or understand my heart and motivations? You answers seem to always linger in the same language of sex and intimacy. But no matter how much I may love you and have enjoyed that part of our time together, I cannot be swayed by it.
All that you are? All that you have? I can believe that only after every request that I have ever made of you is fulfilled, in haste, by you without protest or rancor...there is no need for us to be physically in the same space for that... or will your pretty words do nothing more than wither and fade when confronted by real world demands? "