i agree with what you are saying. and to clairify the beach a little better. we are leaving this friday, and with her telling me lets what until she gets her to talk, she comes on this thursday (two days). we have a hotel booked and the plan was we wake up and go get her school stuff done and then leave for the beach that night (my friends are driving). because her schooling starts monday, but she was going to miss first week due to the beach.
i did email mail her back and i was very vague. i just told her, that i am assuming that she is coming here this thursday for the beach and everything and that i will be there at 8 to pick her up. also told her i was sorry to hear about her near death experience and everything and told her i loved her.
i forgot to mention this, she is back from califonia and is at her moms in NJ. when she was in california she went with a friend and was staying at her dads. i called her mom once to get the answer i needed (to findout if she will be here this thursday or not because she would not answer me) which i know is clingy and thank you for pointing that out. i need to change that. any rate, her phone seemed cool and just said, tina needs to let you know. so, i wonder if it was more her mom was upset she was avoided me. i don't know.
and i agree, i dont think she would come all the way here to break up with me espically when i am the only one she knows here and pretty much moved out here for me. but iam just going to leave her alone to she ocmes here.
ps. she was only in california for a week and was working at a camp for the summer. when she was home working we talked all the time, it was when she went to visit her friends that i would not hear form her. i hope this helps more. but in all honesty, do you really think we will not end it. i lopve her andi know she does too and i just love being with this person, we have a great connection.