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Hi... I'm a 26 year old male than recently met a 26 year old woman. So far we have been out 4 times. Each time we go out we have a very good time and seem to enjoy each others company. When we first met I knew I wanted to be with her for a long time. However, I have one problem with her that I have never experienced in my past relationships. She never calls me. She will text message we a few times a week, but I have to call her to set up the dates etc... That said, I am fine w/ that, but I sometimes if she is really into me if she does not call me? What is your take on this woman? What should I do.. Thanks!!
Submitted: 9 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  KimberlyF replied 9 years ago.

HiCustomer Thank you for asking your question on Just Answer. By the way, it would help me to know:

-How long have you been dating her now?

-Have you talked to her about this bothering you?

-Could you explain your situation a little more?

Thank you again for trusting me with your problem. Please reply as soon as possible so that Ican finish answering your question.

Customer: replied 9 years ago.
Reply to KimberlyF's Post: - I have been dating her for about 3 weeks. I see her about once a week.

- I have never mentioned it to her that I am bothered by her lack of calling

I guess I am just trying to protect my heart/time/effort in this girl because after 3 weeks I do not truly know if she likes me. I mean she keeps wanting to go out with me but she never picks up the phone to call. I was just wondering if she is playing some sort of game by me chasing her all the time by calling/setting up dates. At this point what do I do?
Expert:  KimberlyF replied 9 years ago.

Try not to read so much into her not calling she may just be the type of girl that likes to be asked and called by the guy so that she doesn't feel clingy, what you may want to do is ask her if she doesn't feel comfortable about calling you. If she wasn't interested in you I really don't think she would continue to waste her time going on dates with you. I just think she may be an old fashion girl and believe the guy should call if interested. The only way you will truly find out is to ask her the questions you want answers to because only she holds the answers to those questions but I really think that she thinks guys should make the effort if they are truly interested.

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