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Experience:  Over 20 years experience specializing in anxiety, depression, drug and alcohol, and relationship issues
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I need a quick answer,I am living with my fiancee,for the past 9 mos.we have been together 3yrs.He is a widower and has a 19yr. old daughter.

We decided I would ,let one of my tenants go and put her in my apt.
Well both of them think it's Ok for
her to have the freedom to the Main house and apt.too there is a hall that seperates the two living area's.Locked.I have gone through hell
with this Brunette Paris Hilton,she's
has tried every trick in the book to
get her Dad to be with her for every whim ,she is beautiful,on the Dean's List ,doesn't want to work only 15 hrs. per week(1st yr. working) wants expensive everything,
want's her father to honor her dead
mother and go to the gravesite on
birthday's and holiday's,but doesn't have one picture of her in her apt.
His sisters have said,this is a very unsual relationaship they have,not the
norm.She totally controls him,
Laundry,the cell must be with him at all times,I need to know if I should give this up ? he will move
Submitted: 9 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.
Hello Ann

What are you and your fiance's ages?

How does she get in if it's locked?

Have you talked to him about needing your privacy and having seperate living areas? If so, what was his response?

Are his expenses for her taking away from his responsibilities to the home you share?

Is he taking your thoughts into consideration at all?