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if a man doesnt look at porn is he most likely gay

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I am questioning if my husband who has sex with me but no interest in looking at porn (never has) is secretly gay or bi sexual?
Submitted: 9 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.

Hello

How long have you been married?

What are your ages?

How did the subject come up or how did you know he never watched it?

Any problems with your sex life?

Do you like to watch porn?

Chase

Customer: replied 9 years ago.
we have been married 3 years. I am 42 and he is 46. I also just caught him having an affair with another woman. He can be hard 24/7 with me! He has told me numerous times he has never been into porn and I have never seen any in his possession. I rarely watch it myself...Several of my friends and my atty. have mentioned it has crossed their minds he might be gay or bi....my divorce atty. even said she has a great gay-dar and swears he is. What do you think?
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.

Hello,

There are plenty of men who are not 'into' porn, and it doesn't make them gay. Some may have been put off of it from childhood, some just may not get into how unnatural it seems. There could be a dozen reasons, some people are just more picky than others. I think you would need more concrete info to justify the claim that he might be gay. Additionally, you would expect sexual problems, and it wouldn't be likely that he cheated with another woman. I'm a little surprised that your lawyer would make a comment like that. I welcome your thoughts, let me know if you want to talk more.

Chase

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