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Hi there, Let me explain my situation a bit -

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Hi there,

Let me explain my situation a bit -
Last year - i was almost obsessed about this one girl - she was practically my life - if we got on i was happy.. if we fell out i was sad.

She usually said i was very insecure... obsessive.... i just wanted to be in a relationship with her whatever the cost! I was kind of abit controlling too - if i know she needed me for something, i would get whatever i could out of her in return. I was depressed and suffered was very bad anxiety.

At the same time all of my other relationships suffered - i don''t know. People didn''t seem to be very interested in me at all - conversations would be all ME putting in the effort - i had a craving to be popular and liked by everyone.

Is this a sign of co-dependency or low self esteem?

I look forward to any advice.
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