Have Relationship Questions? Ask a Counselor for Answers ASAP
HiCustomer Thank you for asking your question on Just Answer. By the way, it would help me to know:
-What is your girlfriend's age?
-What happened that was so bad that her parents would hate you so much?-Is she talking about leaving you?Thank you again for trusting me with your problem. Please reply as soon as possible so that I can finish answering your question.
Thank you for replying back to me, although you texted the girl while you and your girlfriend were back together you still did nothing wrong you didn't sleep with this girl or even go out with her but the fact that you called her while you and your girlfriend were fighting is what made your girlfriend mad and then you lied about when she confronted you. Maybe you should tell her to explain to her parents how her thumb actually got dislocated and then maybe they won't be so mad at you but I must say your girlfriend should have kept that information about you private and not have told her parents because now they hate you and she wants to be back with you and it makes it so much harder for the two of you to work on your relationship but it is up to her to make things right and tell her parents that you aren't as bad as she made you seem.
Even though she wants to respect her parent and that is a good thing, she can't live for her parents she is 22 years old and it's time for her to make her own life and her parents aren't going to agree with everyone she dates they just have to let her make her own decisions and her own mistakes that is the only way she will learn about life and living life. You will prove to her parents that you aren't out to hurt their daughter and understand they are just trying to protect her from getting hurt you can't expect anything less from a parent. give it some time and they will see that you are not the evil person they think you are right now, you have to be willing to put in the work to help them see that you are good for their daughter. You and your girlfriend have to learn to talk to each other without fighting, sit down calmly and talk things out.
Try not to lie about something so innocent it only makes you look guilty remember honest is always the best policy even if that person is going to be mad about the truth, they get ten times more mad at a lie because then they lose trust in you. it is up to your girlfriend to fix the mess with her parents because she made the mess if she wouldn't have talked badly about you her parents would not hate you. you should work on your relationship first and then deal with the problem with the parents. Maybe if they see you getting along it won't take as long to get the parents to come around.