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If you are wondering about the relationship the best thing to do is to be honest with her and ask her if things are okay and if she says they aren't then you should ask her to explain why she thinks they aren't. A year is not that long to be dating someone especially if it's been off and on depending on how off it's has been. You both are still in the learning each other stage. Ask her to be patient while the two of you try and work this out. Is there a reason why you find it easier to talk to other people than your girlfriend? Is she judgmental or does she get uncomfortable when you talk to her? The nervousness may be due to the fact that you have had an on again off again relationship and you aren't sure when the next off again will occur.
If you love and care about her you really should find out where things are and try to talk to her more, I'm sure she doesn't care that you stutter sometimes as long as you are talking to her. She just wants you to be able to communicate with her and not have to go to other people. You may have a trust issue and this is what makes you unsure about your relationship. You may not trust the relationship enough to have trust in it. How often have you broken up and gotten back together? That could tell us a little more about why you wonder if the relationship is okay.