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restrainig order against young female dating senior

Customer Question

the senior was not informed about it and
develop depression.
Submitted: 9 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.

Hello jg

Can you give me more info about the situation?

The more info you give me, the better I can help


Customer: replied 9 years ago.
Reply to Ms Chase's Post: If I understend correct, her phone has been monitored for any
contacts. The senior person was not informed in any way. This seem to be not legal to me and makes me to try to investigate this.
Problem is I do not know how to start, who's place of residence
was use to file, and so on. Please help me to start and find who is responsible for this mistreating law following citizens.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.

I'm sorry, but I am still not undertanding what happened

Has a restraining order been given?

Who is the young person to you? who is the senior person to you?

Do you mean high school senior or senior citizen?

How old is each person exactly?

Is there a relationship between the two of them? If so, what kind?

Who is monitoring whos phone?

After this maybe I will understand more what's going on and can help better.


Customer: replied 9 years ago.
The young person is 37 years old and the senior is 67 years old, is a close friend. Who is monitiring phone is what i wouuld like to find out. I need to know how to trace this type of restraining
orders and why can give it?So we have the same questions.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.

You have a 37 year old and a 67 year old, close friends. what else.....did something happen? If so, what happened?

A restraining order and a phone tap are two different things? Which one is it? How do you know about either or both?


Customer: replied 9 years ago.
Nothing have happened, just friendship have been domolished without a reason, perhaps some busybody had visions of who knows what and run to cort to do the dirty dead.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.


Without any proof that there is a restraining order or phone tap, I would not automatically assume there is one. There could be other reasons why the person ruined the friendship, but it's hard for me to say without knowing more about the situation. Were the two of them intimate? or just friends? How was the friendship demolished? If this is someone you care about, you will want to talk to them and ask them why. If they will not talk to you, there's not really anything you can do except try and deal with the hurt of losing someone who you considered a friend.

I welcome your thoughts, let me know if you want to talk more