HelloCustomer Thank you for bringing your question to Just Answer.
The biggest problem I'm seeing with this relationship, right off the bat, is a failure to communicate. Even you say you don't want to listen to her anymore. Listening is key in any relationship; as a matter of fact, hardly no relationships last without communication between each partner.
The only advice I can offer, if you really, really love her and don't want to lose her, is to call her. Explain what a fool you've been for not listening when she's tried to talk to you, and that you're sorry. Don't tell you you'll never do it again, because that is what you call an empty promise. Instead, tell you that, if she'll give you one more chance, that you promise to work on your communication skills, even seeking the advice of a counselor if necessary. Tell her that you love her deeply and that you do not want to lose her, and that you'll do whatever it takes to save the relationship.
If she invites you over, don't even think about sex. The only thing that should be on your mind is saving the relationship, and sex doesn't save relationships. Take a dozen roses and go there with the mindset of talking out the relationship. Listen to everything she has to say, and don't get into a fight. Keep your voice down and don't get argumentative. And hopefully, you will be able to save the relationship. Best of luck to you.
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