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met a guy and had a one night stand and we both care for each other, One is married the other single. he told me before and after how much he thinks of me , looks and everything about me. He says that he''s unhappy on the job but the only good thing that happened to him was finding me,but he does not want to get into a relationship because he want to move to another state in a couple of months and does not want me to get hurt.He called me to see if I was ok after we spent the night together and is very caring.   I am married but not happy and haven''t been for a long time.
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Hello Purple,

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