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When did you email him?
We don't do telephone, but we do have a chat feature where we could chat in real time. I believe if you open a new question it will give you the option to choose chat when you place your deposit, or you can contact [email protected] and they will email you back the info. I will wait to hear back what you decide. If you just want me to go ahead here, I will. Let me know
It sounds as if this man wanted to be with you and be with his wife. Instead of coming out and being honest, he felt the need to lie to you about his situation and about what he was doing. In my experience, if they lie, they will cheat, and if they do both, who knows what else they will do. I understand that you like him, you may even love him, but the best indicator of future behavior is past behavior, if he lied once, its highly likely that he will do it again. In a situation like this, you have to love yourself more than you love the other person and try and get out of the situation before things get worse. Not being in the same place, or close to each other makes everything even harder. The botXXXXX XXXXXne is, there is someone out there who is willing to love you like you need to be loved, when one door closes, another door opens. Take this opportunity to close the door on him, he hasn't even given you the respect of responding to your email. Be happy that things did not turn out worse than this and next time be sure to find out more about where a man lives and who he's with before giving your heart to him. I hope this helps. I welcome your thoughts, let me know if you want to talk more