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really hope you can give me an opinion about my situation.
I met a man who I became involved with, at the time we met I knew he had a relationship but I was told by him he was separated and not living with his couple. I was visiting his country and moved on to mine and in a three month period he visited me five times.
Suddenly he decided to take some time off, a week later he contacted me again and said that after a business trip he would stop where I live so we can spend some time together. I have found out he is spending a week with his couple/wife... (though not married) and he lied big time to me saying he would be somewhere he was not planning to with different people.
When I found out I confronted him by email. What interpretation can you give to this man.... did he see in me a fool..... did he lie to get away with the idea of being with two people simultaneously.... I wonder if he will reply to my email

Thank you so much for your time.
Submitted: 10 years ago.Category: Relationship
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Counselor: Ms Chase, Life Coach replied 10 years ago
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Hello Anma

Where did you meet him?

Where are the two of you from?

How old are the two of you?

When did you email him?

Chase

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Customer reply replied 10 years ago
Reply to Ms Chase's Post: Dear Chase:
Thank you for your follow up.

- Where did you meet him? In Ecuador

- Where are the two of you from? he is from Argentina and I am from Colombia. Right now I am living in USA.

- How old are the two of you? he is 36 and I am 33

When did you email him? Last Friday.

Are your services done online only? or is there a telephone may I contact you? If so I would still be willing to pay for the services and I will wait for your response.

Regards
Counselor: Ms Chase, Life Coach replied 10 years ago

Hello anma,

We don't do telephone, but we do have a chat feature where we could chat in real time. I believe if you open a new question it will give you the option to choose chat when you place your deposit, or you can contact [email protected] and they will email you back the info. I will wait to hear back what you decide. If you just want me to go ahead here, I will. Let me know

Chase

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Customer reply replied 10 years ago
Reply to Ms Chase's Post: Dear Chase:
Yes, I would like to learn what yu have to say about my concern.
I have no further questions and upon your reply I will make payment of USD 15 which is what I may afford right now.
I look forward to your coments about my question.
Regards,
Ana Maria
Counselor: Ms Chase, Life Coach replied 10 years ago
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