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Hello, I''ve been married to my husband for 5 years altogether for 9. Throughout the years both parents on both sides have had a swoon on us.My mother in law passed away 4 years ago from breast cancer,my dad passed away last october from a major heart attack, and now my father in law is basically fighting for his life from a lung infection.My mother has been living in our (me and my husband) bedroom since my fathers death.Since he''s passed away in her house and she found him there,she has been traumatized ever since, and is putting herself through a foreclosure.She is now staying with us.My father in law suffered an internal infection that spread to his brain and caused him some neurological problems being unsure wether he will come back to normal. He is still in the hospital getting treatment.My husband and I wanted to buy a home this year and now I''M rethinking our life together. I don''t know how our life would be if we were to take care of my fatherinlaw.what do I do?
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Hello Priss

Your mom has been living with you for the past 5 mos? How has your husband been dealing with that?

Are the problems you are experiencing with both sets of parents the only issues in your marriage?

How old are the two of you?

Do you love your husband and want to be with him?

What are you afraid of?

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