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My boyfriend work 3rd shift and I work 1st, plus he ...

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My boyfriend work 3rd shift and I work 1st, plus he workover time and he is living with his son. Since he got on 3rd shift we had not been spending any time together. When I'm at worhe shows me alot of love and affection. He is not going to stay on 3rd, because the job is only to eliminate his job and that is going to put him bk on 1st again. I have a friend that think he is cheating, because he have not been spending time with me out of job recently. Is it true, could my boyfriend be cheating on me.
Submitted: 9 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.

Hello Queen,

Has he given you any reason to believe that he is cheating on you?

How long before he goes back on your shift?

Have you talked to him about it? If so what was his response?


Customer: replied 9 years ago.
No, I do not think so. My friend, she think so. He suppose to be back on 1st, March 3rd. He told me he does not have any time to cheat, the only girlfriend he has is his son. I know when we make plans he is too tired or sleepy to do anything or he may over sleep. My friend think he should break his sleep once in awhile to spend time with me, but I feel this is only temporary anyway.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.


It's only a couple days until he is back on shift with you, so I would not be too worried about it. Sometimes he should make time to spend together, maybe making sure you're plans don't go so long that he can't stay awake.

You have to by what you feel, what your woman's intuition is telling you, instead of listening to your friends. They are not in your relationship so may not know everything that's going on. Sometimes friends can be a help, but sometimes they just need to let you figure things out.


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