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You don't want to come right out and ask her or tell her that you think she is still seeing her ex or else that will cause tension within your relationship and may also cause fights that aren't really necessary, what you should do instead is sit down with her and ask your wife if she still has any feelings for her ex, also ask her if she regrets the break up with her ex and if she adamantly says no to both answers then all you can do is trust that she is telling you the truth and it's just a matter of he treated her well and she really has nothing bad to say about him for that reason. If you accuse her of cheating and ask her question about cheating it could have an adverse affect on the marriage and she will feel as though you do not trust her and she could resent you for that. This is a touchy situation and should be treated that way if you ask her in the way that I have said it will lessen the blow and you hopefully will still get the answers that you need but without an arguement or hard feelings. If you do not have proof of her cheating or even seeing the ex in passing then it really isn't a good idea to ask her questions about her ex and if she is cheating. A relationship is built on trust and until she gives you proof of her cheating all you can do is trust in her saying that she doesn't have any feelings for the ex but just hold the memory of the ex in good standings.