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-How long have you been engaged?
-Do you love your fiance` or are you seeing now that you have more feelings for the ex?
-Does your fiance` treat you well?
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You have to be honest with not only your fiancé` but yourself as to what you want and you should use this time that your fiancé` is away to do that, but you have to respect your relationship with your fiancé` at least until you can make up your mind as to what you want. I don't see anything wrong with going to the party but you should make sure that you don't do anything with the ex that you will regret you owe him that much since he said he doesn't want to get his heart broken again, that doesn't mean that you can not be friends but you have to be able to tell the difference between friends and something more. Don't avoid your fiancé's calls that will only make him think bad thoughts as to why you are not answering his calls. If you feel you need time then maybe you should tell him honestly that you need some time to think about things.
This is a time where honesty is the best policy and that means being completely honest with yourself also. Make sure that you give yourself a fair enough chance to decide what you really want and that means weighing which one has made you happier your fiancé` or the ex. If you have something to add click reply it is free.