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we are both 19yrs old and have been dating for about two years.
-she started acting distant for about a month and then broke up with me. at first she said it was because she wanted to work on herself and that the relationship was getting too serious, too soon (more on that later) and then later she said that she had a problem where she can only feel satisfied in a relationship for so long until she wants someone new because she feels like she can always "do better".
- the irony of it all, was that we were going at her pace and any large relationship milestone was initiated by her. i was reluctant about the seriousness of it while she wanted to reassure me and so on. discussion about marriage, family, etc soon ensued. we got along great while dating, no major problems at all between us.
-the breakup was not bad, it was very sudden but not bad. she was my best friend in addition to being my girlfriend. what bothers me the most is that she brought me to extremely rare point where i feel 100 percent comfortable with her. this meant that i told her everything, emotions, thoughts, fears etc. since iam a very private person and i dont show emotion at all except to her, i feel like my soul has been stolen from me. i think that is the reason i feel so empty and disappointed now.
-we communicate intermittently, but less and less often now. i would just cut her off for a while and call her, and then do it again. its kind of a cycle i guess. throughout all this i never make any efforts or attempts to get back together with, i just call her to talk. but the most recent time we spoke, i made some vague allusions to it and she waved it off because she is talking to someone else and she mentioned what others would think of her if she went back to me. she said that she doesnt care what others think and that if she wanted to be with me she would. i could be wrong but i disagree.