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Does she say what she dislikes about it?
Is it the ejaculation part or it doesn't matter? How old is she? Does she enjoy oral sex from you? Thanks
As frustrating as it may be, you CAN'T force someone to like something if they don't. If she has tried in the past and just can't mentally get past it, then it's how she feels. Some woman enjoy it a great deal, while others want know part of it. You can make sure you shower, perhaps you body chocolates or flavoring oils. However if none of that makes any difference to her, then that is who she is. You will have to come to terms that this is who she is. You should talk to her, and find out if something happened in her past to make her think it's all gross etc. Sometimes girls are taught this is nasty or a sin etc. if she feels this way, then let her know it's fine, show her some information on giving oral sex. But if the above is not the case, and it's just how she feels, then thats who your wife is. And as you know, we can't change those that we love.
And it may be that she's not sure if she is doing it right etc. so sit down talk to her, let her know how much you would enjoy this, but also be prepared that this is how she may be.
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