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I co-signed for a mortgage for my son and his fiancée. They

split up, she left and...
I co-signed for a mortgage for my son and his fiancée. They split up, she left and refuses to pay her part of the mortgage payments. The house is underwater, my son wants to keep it but can barely make the payments on this own. He even now has a boarder. He is trying to get a HARP loan to lower his payments but she refuses to even sign the forms. What recourse do we have?
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P. Simmons
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Thanks for the chance to help. I am an attorney with over 12 years experience. Hopefully I can help you with your legal question.

This is a tough one...that is, your recourse here is limited at this point.

As the guarantor of the loan, if the loan defaults, the lender could come after you (as the guarantor) and seek payment from you. If this happens, you would then have a cause of action against both the fiancée and your son. But so long as the loan is current, and the creditors are not demanding you pay, you would not be able to take legal action against either party.

Now...I understand the dilemma. Your son is trying to save his credit (and the home) and you want to to help your son and protect your assets.

And you are correct...

"the aprox $40k underwater is half her responsibility if the house is forclosed."

That is true.

Though practically speaking there are many ways this can resolve and several would not present her with a $20K

For example if the home forecloses (assuming you do not step in and pay the note to protect your credit and assets), the lender may choose not to pursue a deficiency judgment against the fiancee. IN fact, it is likely they would not. Deficiency judgments are rare today...more common the lender simply acknowledges the debt with a 1099 form and moves on.

So it may be the fiancee is assuming that will happen.

But the other possibility is that the loan is in default and you, as the guarantor, step in to make it right. In such a case you would be able to seek reimbursement from BOTH parties, jointly and severally. SO you could, for example, seek the entire amount from her.

So that may be the way to approach this...you let her know, ideally with a letter from your lawyer, that if she does not cooperate you will be forced to step in and take possession of the home, and that you will sue her for the damages you incur. It may be this convinces her to assist your son. In such cases, a letter from a lawyer can have a powerful impact. They are called a "demand letter" and many lawyers will write one for a nominal fee (an hour at their billing rate).

I would consider having a local attorney draft and send her a demand letter...that may get her to step up and assist

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Customer reply replied 4 years ago


Thank you for the advice. It seems reasonable to me. But just to be clear... we are saying I would tell her that IF the house goes into default because my son cannot meet the payments, then I would pay the debt remaining after the sale (hopefully $40k or less) and than sue her for some or all of it? .... Jim

Yes sir. As guarantor, you are financially responsible to the bank (or whomever holds the note currently) if the primary borrowers default. So long as that note is current? There is nothing you can do.

But if the loan defaults? And you have to step in to make good on your guarantee? They yes...you would have a legal claim against the fiancee for the money you have to pay.

Now...practically speaking I am not sure you would want to actually do this...to pay the loan then sue them...that would be an expensive proposition. But you could if you had to. And the fact you could gives you the threat...the leverage that may help you now.

The leverage you have is that you can let the fiancee know that if she does not cooperate and the loan defaults you WILL go after her...it may be this threat is enough to prompt her to action.

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Customer reply replied 4 years ago

Thanks again - I appreciate your help ...... Jim

Yes sir

Best of luck

Phil
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