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How can I discipline my toddler to stop being so demanding

and hitting us? I've tried...
How can I discipline my toddler to stop being so demanding and hitting us? I've tried time out but he's stubborn. How can I tell what is normal behavior or if I should see a therapist. He is very aggressive.
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How old is your toddler?

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has physical development, and bloodwork testing at the Pediatricians been normal, as far as you're aware?

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Customer reply replied 10 months ago
3 and he's completely healthy and normal he just has a really short temper

Excellent- thank you for the info

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First of all, you deserve credit - handling a difficult 3 year old is a tough battle for even the most competent and capable parents - they can be very very tough! If you haven't already seen a therapist, that is a HUGE first step that will not only help your son follow a much more simple and healthy path, but will help give you guidance for the process which may be difficult for some more time to come.

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Any self inflicting behaviors? Does he show remorse when hits?

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any head banging or self-injury?

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Customer reply replied 10 months ago
No but some days he will say gentle touch only and other days he will say no I want to hit
Customer reply replied 10 months ago
When he was younger head banging but not a lot

I see.. You should certainly be following with a therapist. This is a complicated path to improvement and you should have close guidance from a specialist.

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Customer reply replied 10 months ago
Why should I be concerned of self inflicting behavior? Is that a sign of something?
Customer reply replied 10 months ago
I mean a symptom?
Customer reply replied 10 months ago
But at school he is perfectly fine so some blame me for spoiling him

In some cases, medications help, in some cases simple behavioral exercises and treatments can help. The self-inflicting behavior can mean many different things - it can be a sign of unmet needs, it can be normal and exploratory... and it can be evidence of concerning neuropsychiatric troubles.

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I'm not sure blame, any way it comes, serves much good. Everyone's goal is (or should be) in light of your son's best interest. And every child like this (and parent) deserves to have a therapist guiding the way.

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If you're curious for concrete options for the time being, I typically recommend a formal location in the house that is a place for discipline (can be a blue box outlined by tape, a certain seat or couch etc), and some system of timing, where there is a place and time for calm and collection and understanding. 3 years old is still pretty young and impressionable, so the goal of "discipline" is not the same as punishment.. He will learn a lot by modeling you and your reactions to him. so, an approach which is calm, clear, explanatory is much more helpful than you reacting to any provocation he might throw at you. at 3 years old, he is very much testing limits and exploring boundaries.

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I have seen some do-it-yourself timer options ( a plastic bottle filled with glitter) which can be used as a kind of sand-glass timer for help with timing the discipline sessions (calming down sessions), if you're curious

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Customer reply replied 10 months ago
Ok
Customer reply replied 10 months ago
It's tough to distinguish normal
Child tantrums from abnormal

Very tough, agreed! Even for well-trained experts. It is exactly for this reason why therapists are so instrumental in helping these difficult situations

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Customer reply replied 10 months ago
Ok

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thank I
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