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My step son argues with me about everything I say. I'm tired…

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My step son argues...

My step son argues with me about everything I say

Expert's Assistant: The Psychologist will know what to do. Please tell me everything you can so the Psychologist can help you best.

I'm tired of it and want to say something in a loving way

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He seems very territorial with his dad. Like he doesn't want me here . However, I try to treat him the same as I would my children

Submitted: 9 months ago.Category: Parenting
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Parenting Counselor: John-Michaels, Counselor (LPC) replied 9 months ago
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Hello, my name is JOHN. Honestly, it sounds like your issue is with your husband as much it is with your son, if not more. Your husband is the solution at least. He needs to let his son know that when he is disrespectful to you, it is the same as disrespecting him. If you try to take care of it directly, you liable to just make it worse. Does that make sense?
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