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Hello and Thank You for using Just Answer. I am sorry to hear about the problems that you are having with your daughter. Her actions of constant lying, stealing, and other inappropriate behavior are not typical for teen agers. She is in a rebellious state and there is something that is emotionally affecting her in a negative way. Is she being pressured to do drugs? Does she steal things to sell to others so she can get money for drugs or even alcohol? Is she being influenced by her peers too much? Does she have a boyfriend who is pressuring her? Is she still upset over the fact that you and her mother are not together? Are you disciplining Sarah in any way when she misbehaves? She needs to learn that there are consequences for her negative actions. Furthermore, it sounds as though she could still benefit from additional counseling on a continuous basis. She needs further professional assistance to help her learn coping and intervention strategies in dealing with the roller coaster ride of being a teen ager.
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No you have that wrong. Stealing money spends its on lollies stealing cloths well people come round to visit then go thats my shoes or cloths. Sarah went to a counseling to the counselor said that all you can do.
not drugs or alcohol.Sarah really good but the lying an stealing
Sarah obviously does not feel that her lying and stealing is hurting anyone and therefore will continue to do it because it is exciting of trying not to get caught for her. She probably also feels allot of pressure to "fit in" with her friends who may be lying and stealing as well. You need to constantly remind her that her behavior must stop. If she were a little older, her actions could land her in jail. You also must enforce stricter consequences for her lying and stealing so that she will not want to do it again.
If she is taking clothes from other people, then give some of her favorite clothes away to charity. She will be highly upset but that will be her punishment.
If she takes money from others, do not give her money for much of anything fun to do.
When she lies, make sure the consequence is related to whatever she lies about.
Take other things away from her. Make her stay at home. She needs to feel like she is in jail for a while but at home.
You need to send her a message that you will not tolerate her negative actions further.
Hopefully, your daughter will be a respectable young woman toward you when you enforce the consequences for her lying and stealing.
Have a good day.
yes she did. Sarah just has those two problems really,its finding away to help Sarah start to stop the problems.
The stealing doesn't happen that often but the lying full on.