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The main problems......
- He will not work or do much of anything to forward his life. Its currently on stop.
- He refuses to grow up, be responsible - absolutely has his heels dug in.
- He has attempted suicide twice in the last 3 years and we are fearfull that he will soon succeed. He wont accept professional help or take meds.
- He sponges off of us, and while not working, steals money to support his pot habit
We are in a tight squeeze. If we push him, he may well attempt suicide again. If we accomodate him - we are part of the problem.
Our 13 year old daughter lives with us. She is frightened of him. About a month ago, she said "I feel like I'm living with a murderer". It breaks my heart.
We cannot continue as we are, however we dont have a viable path forward.