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My 3 1/2 year old and 4 1/2 year old are like a tornado twister

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My 3 1/2 year old and 4 1/2 year old are like a tornado twister when they are together,fighting with one another,and doing things they shouldn't be doing,and most of the time know they shouldn't be doing.They behave at their best for me,their Mom,whom they spend the most time with,but when I have to leave them with anyone else including their Father,and Grandparents they go completely out of control throwing toys,jumping on the furniture,and doing other things they know it wrong.I am so frustrated,I don't know how to get them to behave,although I try constantly.
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Parenting
Expert:  proexpert37 replied 6 years ago.
Are they given a set of rules to follow? Do they know and understand the consequences for not following the rules?