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How old is he? And what all are your concerns?
he is 14.
I also specifically told him not to
He is a great ki
He has great skin and is very handsome and this just damaged his appearance
I think this is some identity thing. I recently gained custody of him and his three brothers.
I can understand that
I believe that age (teenager) & the custody issues both can have something to do with it
So what should be the approach going forward
As far as your health concerns are concerned
Ink poisoning is NOT likely at this age, though he should be asked about if the guy doing the tattoos was certified, since there would be other concerns like infections (local & systemic)
well he did the work himself with needles and ink
So I am not sure how to approach this because he is normally such a good kid
I don't want to ruin our relationship but this is really really unacceptable
If he has done by himself then I would recommend sitting down and talking to him
regarding the health risks and the reasons why he wanted to get this done
Take time to try and listen to his side fo the stor
Teenage times are frustrating for him as well
Stay with him as a friend and a confidant
and things should work out