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What you are describing is not common if it takes place while playing with your child.(unless the erection is due to the bouncing effect over his lap) Erections are generally evident during stimulation of sexual nature (visual, physical)
Having an erection when not engaged in any sexual/intimate behavior with you, may be something caused by medication such as Viagra. He may also want to have his urologist see him for prostate exam.