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I have never had an orgasm while having intercourse. I am able to orgasm with a vibrator. My partner would very much like to bring to climax. Please help! I am in my 60's
Submitted: 3 years ago.Category: OB GYN
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Most women do not orgasm with vaginal intercourse alone. It is clitoral stimulation that controls orgasm You will have most luck using the female on top position aiding with a vibrator that your partner controls. You can also try the "coital alignment technique" Alot is written about it online. You are entirely normal This is a common issue.

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do you have any recommendations for the vibrator?
OB GYN Doctor: Dr. K., MD replied 3 years ago

You might want to start with a small personal hand held one that you buy at the drug store. They are marketed as personal massagers and found near the condoms. Packaged discretely

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