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While you are thinking about the telephone offer, the steps to obtain a divorce are fairly simple. The only grounds for divorce are that you have been separated for more than two years. In the meantime, if you do separate you will need to sort out relationship property and if you have children, you will need to agree on parenting and contact arrangements.
He cannot use an alleged affair as grounds for obtaining a divorce any sooner. The only ground is separation. If there are communication problems and you want to try to save the marriage, then there are counselling services available which can often help even if you decide to separate.