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Hi, I’m a physician thinking about joining the army reserve but I’m in an acrimonious divorce and worry that this may have a negative impact on my custody- any thoughts

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It is unlikely to have any impact.
First, as a reservist, you are only required to "drill" once a month and 2 weeks a year. You would want to ensure that the custody order addresses this (ensure you do not have custody during the drill weekend or during the 2 week training)

IF you are activated (for example, your unit is called to duty for an extended period of time)? That COULD be a basis to have the custody order changed (since you are not around)...but you can address this in the custody order as well...for example, you agree that if you activate, the child will spend the entire time with the other parent until your return

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Customer reply replied 1 month ago
Thank you. That all makes sense. To make sure I am understanding correctly: I would not be constrained to give up my primary physical custody due to - say- an argument made against me about an “unstable” lifestyle (meaning the ever looming possibility of deployment) but simply make arrangements for the children while I am away- whether with their father or with another family member. I imagine no judge would make me give up primary physical custody for wanting to serve- particularly not being active duty. Still, I ask because it’s a bit nerve wracking...Thanks again

No...no, that will not happen (or should not)...in my experience the judge will not hold your service against you...in fact (again, in my experience) the opposite is true...I see judges going to great lengths to accomodate the member.
Now, I will acknowledge that judges are people...with biases/prejudice (like all people)...so it could be possible your judge is "anti military"...but again, that is not my experience

Please let me know if you have more questions. I am happy to help if I can. Otherwise, please rate the answer so I may get credit for my work.

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