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Hi, I am an ex-spouse of a retired army soldier, we were married in 1980 and divorced in 1997, the last time we were together we were stationed at Aberdeen Proving Ground living on post. We had a hostile break up because he put me out of housing quarters so that his pregnant girlfriend could move in. He finally after his girlfriend had the baby sent me divorce papers. I have been informed that I am entitled to retirement pay because I have never been married again and I traveled with him for at least 11-12 years while he was in the military, do I qualify for anything under the 10/10 rule?

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Yes, I was told by my ex that I was not entitled to anything unless he says I entitled, is that true?

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Whether you are entitled to retirement pay depends on what was in your divorce order. If you were awarded retirement pay as part of your divorce proceeding, then the 10/10 rule allows you to go directly to the military to get the retirement pay rather than having to get the check from your husband. If you don't qualify for the 10/10 rule, but did receive retirement pay as part of the divorce proceeding, then you would still receive retirement pay as awarded by the court...it is just that your husband would have to send you the check. However, if you qualify for the 10/10 rule, but the divorce order did not award you retirement pay, then you would not receive anything.

It is really the divorce order that controls whether you get retirement pay or not.

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