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I am legally separated from my ex. I started to see someone…

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I am legally separated...

I am legally separated from my ex. I started to see someone else, this person being in the military. Now he is being investigated for dating a married woman. Which I am not. My ex is not pushing this at all because he has moved on too. One of my neighbors did not know my ex and I was done and went running to the guy I am seeing and started a lot of bs. It is all hear say. He can not contact me at all.

Lawyer's Assistant: Are you overseas or stateside?

I am stateside my ex is overseas

Lawyer's Assistant: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?

No. I am not military. i was told to stay quite by my lawyer.

Lawyer's Assistant: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?

Not really

Submitted: 2 months ago.Category: Military Law
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Thank you for trusting your question to JA today. I am a licensed attorney with over a decade of law practice and over 20 years of experience in the legal field. I’m happy to be of assistance.

Under the law, yes you are a married women. The UCMJ does not accept a legal separation as being divorced. They are two different things and a military member may not date or engage in sexual relations with someone who is married still.

Your husband that you are legally separated from doesn't have to push the issue. This is a military law and a military commander can push the matter on their own initiative.

Hearsay refers to evidence given in court of a previous statement made outside of court. This situation is not hearsay.

Unfortunately, he has a no contact order, a legal order issued by command. Unless and until you are actually legally divorced, you are still married under the law and he cannot date you.

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