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Your chain of command is correct that you can't just get out. Command decides if you are separated. It's always been that way. That being said, with the appropriate evidence and support from other helping agencies, enough pressure can be put on a commander to convince them to separate you.
First you need to go to medical and actually get a diagnosis of depression. While I have no reason to disbelieve you, you also are not a doctor and are not qualified to diagnose yourself. You need a health care professional to give a diagnosis. This can do two things. It can help with your immediate symptoms so it is not so bad AND it can provide the paperwork necessary to support a separation. Then you need to go to the Chaplain. It doesn't matter if you are religious or not. They are counselors as well as religious. They can counsel you and intercede with command on your behalf. Finally, once you have medical and the chaplain's office on your side, you go back to the chain of command with that support. At that point, you have a real argument to present to your commander rather than just your own statement that you want to get out.
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If you have spoken to them and are working with them, your only real choice is to continue to do so. You could go over your commander's head with the request, but in the military separations are controlled by commanders.
There simply are no loopholes anymore. After nearly 3 decades of continuous deployment and warfare, the military has closed them all. If you are going to be separated, it will only happen with the approval of your commander. Requesting a General Discharge doesn't help the matter, because that separation would still have to be initiated by and approved by your command.
Even breaking the law doesn't work, though it is true that a failed drug test would force command to at least process a separation. That could cause hardship though for the rest of your life, effecting potentially the colleges you can go to, the jobs you can get, etc.
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