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I am sorry to hear about this situation. Technically, under North Carolina criminal law, adultery is a misdemeanor. This means that if a complaint is filed with the civilian police, he may be charged with a criminal misdemeanor. In practice, few such charges actually ever occur. But there is that option - someone only has to file the complaint for an investigation to occur.
In the military, this is also punishable. Adultery in the military is a criminal offense under the Uniform Code of Military Justice. In worse case scenario, adultery is punishable under Article 134 with the accused receiving a dishonorable discharge, forfeiture of all pay and allowances, and confinement for up to one year.
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